The Hidden Risks of Marrying into Wealth or Fame — and How to Stay Safe

Dating a celebrity. Marrying into a wealthy family. Becoming royalty.

The public loves a cinderella story. We eat up tales of private people who fall in love with the rich and famous; but we don’t always take into account the stresses — or security challenges — that come with moving from the private sphere to the world of public figures.

Take the marriage of Meghan Markle and Prince Harry. Hailed as a real-life fairy tale when they married in 2018, the strain of stepping from life as a private person into the fishbowl world of royalty, has come with significant security concerns including stalkers, threats, and harassment.

While the royals are an extreme example, these issues are common for normal people who date or marry public figures — or who suddenly become rich or famous themselves.

What are the security challenges of the rich and famous?

It’s almost a cliche that fame and money come with challenges. Many of those challenges, however, are security-related. Furthermore, fame and fortune come with their own distinct sets of security issues.

What threats come with instant fame?

If you suddenly find yourself in the spotlight, either by being romantically linked with a famous figure or by becoming famous yourself, your biggest issue will be exposure. You’ll likely find yourself on the receiving end of unwanted attention of all kinds.

Members of the media will feel it’s their job to expose your secrets and details from your private life. Both journalists and fans will want to take your picture all the time. Fans will feel entitled to information about your private life. Stalkers or obsessed fans may threaten you. If you’re dating or married to a famous person, you might draw the ire of your significant others’ admirers.

What threats come with wealth?

If you’re marrying into money (or just came into a sudden inheritance), chances are you’ll be worrying about internal security issues as well as external ones.

Wealthy families often worry about protecting their own stake in the estate, and don’t like the idea of an outsider marrying into the family and possibly diluting an inheritance. People from your own past may also take advantage of you, asking for money, raising the price of services to scam you out of money, or even trying to sue you.

While all of these issues are uncomfortable, others like kidnapping and ransom, are legitimately dangerous. Members of wealthy families may be accustomed to kidnapping threats and concerns about interstate and international travel, but new members of the family might not even consider these worries.

How can you protect yourself if you’re entering the spotlight?

There’s a reason celebrities often have teams surrounding them. When we offer protection to families, the security often looks more like a commercial space than a residential space: there are cameras, guards, background checks for staff and frequent visitors. It can be intimidating, but it’s important to take security seriously.

If you’re new to the limelight, you should seek out experts who can help keep you safe and offer advice on the sorts of threats you may face:

• Executive protection experts who can keep you safe.

• Attorneys who can advise you on kidnapping insurance and other legal issues

• A public relations team or spokesperson to handle the press

You should also be sure to speak to the non-professionals in your life. Confide in your friends and family about your new lifestyle, and make sure you have a good core group of friends and family you can trust. That will make some of your new challenges easier to face.

A New Life Deserves a New Level of Security

Fame and fortune can change your life overnight — but they also change your risk profile.

Whether you’ve entered the public eye through marriage, wealth, or your own success, understanding and managing your new vulnerabilities is critical. That’s where Circadian Risk comes in. Our comprehensive security assessment platform goes beyond surface-level threats to uncover the full picture of your personal and property risks, helping your team anticipate, prepare for, and prevent incidents before they happen. From residential protection to travel security and digital privacy, Circadian Risk helps you turn uncertainty into confidence, so you can enjoy the spotlight safely.

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About the Author

Daniel Young

Founder & Chief Innovation Officer

Daniel has been a security and risk advisor for more than 10 years, and is passionate about helping companies to better understand their risks to undesirable events on a daily basis. Dan previously served as the Regional Bioterrorism Coordinator for District 1 in Michigan, where he was instrumental in preparing communities for catastrophic incidents. He has also acted as the Private Security Liaison for the City of Lansing’s Critical Infrastructure Team, which identified and documented deficiencies in the city’s critical infrastructure.

He is a Co-Founder of the CSO Risk Council, a think tank of seasoned security professionals and thought leaders with extensive experience in managing the physical security and risks of large enterprises consisting of multiple sites and whose mission is to create a better process to develop and share innovative solutions and pertinent information with organizations to improve safety and security risk by providing a forum to discuss best practices and recommendations for specific risk scenarios and to network with other enterprise security professionals.